You have had the answer for about three weeks. What you have been doing since is collecting permission. It will not become obvious. It will only become later.
The Moon in Gemini pulls your attention toward conversation today, which is useful for once: the thing you need is not more certainty, it is one sentence said out loud to the person it concerns. Keep it short. Long explanations are how you hide.
Privacy is a good instinct. Secrecy is a tax you pay to avoid one uncomfortable evening.
Work
Someone will test a boundary in a meeting today, probably gently. Restate it once, without heat, and move on.
Love
If you are attached, ask the boring specific question instead of the loaded one. If you are single, notice who gets quieter around you, not louder.
Do this today
One message, before 18:00, to the person you have been drafting in your head.